Our soldiers are well-trained to fight and defend our country. But this doesn’t mean, they are not mindful of their manners or behavior. Despite their tough persona, our Philippine Army personnel also need personality development training to build confidence, refine their behavior, and strengthen their interpersonal skills. They also have to know about etiquette and social graces.

For the second year, the Philippine Army sent me an invitation to speak on the same topic. The first Social Graces Workshop they had with me was on December 2017 at Fort Bonifacio. The Gender and Development Office of the Philippine Army Signal saw the need to train their frontline personnel. These men and women lacked the basic knowledge of etiquette and manners, particularly in formal gatherings. On December 6, 2018, I taught them social graces, grooming, etiquette, body language, power dressing, and the need to develop a professional image through proper personality development training.

Social Graces are basic skills. These are courteous and gracious behaviors in social settings. These involve etiquette, manners, posture, and style. Social graces must conform to acceptable norms in modern society. Personality development is a continuing pattern of individual feelings, behaviors, and thoughts. Social graces, together with a positive personality, will help soldiers gain respect. All these are vital outcomes of well-designed personal development training programs that open new career opportunities and build stronger leadership.

I taught them the importance of their ABCD (Appearance, Behavior, Body Language, and Digital Presence). This is essential as they carry out their duties. If they follow the ABCD, they will feel confident and empowered. There is a need for military personnel to have an executive presence as well. In fact, it is crucial for every member of the organization.

Executive Presence is an all-encompassing quality of a leader whose character, competencies, and professional image project authority, credibility, and integrity.

Executive Presence reflects a leader’s ability to project authority, credibility, and integrity through their actions, communication, and professional image. It combines confidence, composure, and authenticity, which are qualities that naturally inspire respect and trust. Developing this through structured personality development training in the Philippines can transform an ordinary military training program into a well-rounded leadership experience that strengthens both skill and character.

Aside from teaching them basic dining etiquette, I also taught them social graces. They communicate through their body language, facial expression, and tone of voice. According to the Philippine Institute for Development Studies (PIDS), many Filipino workers lack essential soft skills, including interpersonal behavior and non-verbal communication, highlighting the need for comprehensive personal development training programs. 

This is important as their non-verbal cues say a lot about them. We also discussed the importance of good grooming and appearance as Army personnel. In the end, if they practice these, they will be able to inspire others to do the same.

Private Weisson Bueno said, “despite all the ordeals and challenges, you can inspire other people and change everything.” Staff Sergeant Villanueva admitted that he learned many things like how to transform one’s self and interact with others. Private Adele Roxas shared that she learned the value of inspiration. For Ms. Aireen Ramos, “Everybody has a choice to improve their appearance, communication, and behavior. I choose to have a good image.”

Build a Team That Leads with Confidence

Are you a member of the armed services like the army, navy, or the police force? Does your team need to man-up by learning basic etiquette and nonverbal communication skills? We can help your organization by equipping your team with the skills to impact their leadership.

Consult with our Image Strategist, Motivational Speaker, and Corporate Trainer through Radiance Image Consultancy. We offer various personality development training programs including Executive Presence and Leadership Branding Skills, The Impact of First Impressions, Work Ethics and Professionalism, and Minimalist Beauty Queen. Get in touch with Radiance Image for your corporate programs, keynote talks, and short workshops today!

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Here are answers to common questions about social graces and personality development:

What are social graces in personality development?

Social graces are polite behaviors and good manners that help people interact respectfully and confidently. They reflect kindness, courtesy, and professionalism in any setting.

Why is personal development important​?

Personal development is important because it helps individuals improve their skills, mindset, and confidence. It also promotes growth that leads to better relationships, career success, and life satisfaction.